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The tumultuous trio that we were for each other touched deeply my heart by yours. Congrats on your life work! You spent your life on Earth passionately and well. Excellent. Often death is perplexing because we can't see the big picture.
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Hello Shaira:
I know you are surrounded by love, prayers, memories laughter and tears: I add my emotions to the bouquet that is your company of family/friends. We are reminded yet again, that life is precious short, fragile and a gift. Catherine is truly alive and well in all our hearts....that's the mystery of it all, isn't it, as we travel this 'magical mystery tour/yellow brick road'? I remember specifically the first Pride In Art I was so honored to be a part of (thank you Shaira), and Catherine's gleeful expressions after my rendition of The Viper's Drag. Her joy still emanates and echoes in all our lives: TO LIFE: L'CHAIM. As my wise old Jamaican mother says, 'God never gives you more than you can handle'.Angels abound, and Catherine is now the leader of the band...OUR BAND. God speed,Catherine. Shaira: I am/we are with you.
Love, Denis.
Thursday, December 03, 2009 at 10:28 Host: S0106001a6b6b2870.vc.shawcable.net |
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I have not yet been able to integtrate her death into my life. This tragedy and our great loss reminds me of how important it is to live to the fullest. Catherine certanly knoew how to do that. She palyed a major part in Pride Health Services at 3 Bridges and so many have been touched through that. And touched by her presence.
Shaira, there are no words that I can write or say. Part of my memory is seeing both of you on the bike! though memories continue, your loss is still huge, our loss is great.
Thursday, December 03, 2009 at 10:03 IP: 66.183.103.228 |
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there are really no words...
a presence
a light
a big smile (even when exhausted after a pride weekend's worth of life...)
and the obvious loving bond between you
Shaira - sending much love and energy to you and also to Catherine in her next adventure
Thursday, December 03, 2009 at 09:54 Host: vicce008.net.gov.bc.ca |
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I have come to realize that although you meet many many people in your life, you meet people very occasionally who make you stop and take notice of their presence in your life. Catherine was that kind of person. Although I did not know her for very long, I was so touched by her warmth and genuine kindness. She was a wise,thoughtful and powerful woman and the world is a little less bright and warm without her. My thoughts are with her family.
Thursday, December 03, 2009 at 09:47 Host: d75-157-190-143.bchsia.telus.net |
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I will miss that glorious joyous spirit riding on bike in the front of the Pride Parade. For years Catharine's energy has supported me and many others, to celebrate our diversity and our uniqueness.
Sahaira you know that Catharine continues to fill you with her love. She adored you.
To her parents family and all her friends I share the deep sadness of this tragedy.
Thursday, December 03, 2009 at 08:58 IP: 139.173.54.11 |
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I really enjoy the time that we worked together. I am always impressed by your devotion and care towards the transgender clients. You will be missed deeply.
Thursday, December 03, 2009 at 08:46 Host: vance006.net.gov.bc.ca |
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When I heard that Catherine had died I was immediately shocked and sad. But I quickly moved to gratitude and determination to make the best of the time I have left on this planet. That is what I remember about Catherine. She was living life to the fullest. She was a breath of very pleasant fresh air. Not afraid to feel joy or sadness and ready to face reality be it fortunate or unfortunate and make the best of it.
Thursday, December 03, 2009 at 08:33 IP: 139.173.54.11 |
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sending much love and light to all of Catherine's family and friends, especially Shaira.
i knew Catherine through work. Catherine was a support to me and also to those i referred to her. many people told me of the kindness and open heart she had.
love to you all.
Thursday, December 03, 2009 at 07:37 Host: d75-157-204-188.bchsia.telus.net |
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Catherine....you have been such an inspiration and a source of strength. In the times I thought I was weakest you helped me to see just how much strength I have in me. No words can express the loss in which I feel but no words can express the strength your spirit will continue to give each person who has had the honor to have met you.
Deep peace of the running wave to you.
Deep peace of the flowing air to you.
Deep peace of the quiet earth to you.
Deep peace of the shining stars to you.
Deep peace of the infinite peace to you.
Godspeed.
Thursday, December 03, 2009 at 01:40 Host: d154-5-173-254.bchsia.telus.net |
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Dear Shaira - we want to send you our most sincere condolences. Catherine was such a beautiful person - emanating wholeness, kindness and love. Her energy and presence will be missed.
Thursday, December 03, 2009 at 00:00 Host: S010600254b08ce94.vc.shawcable.net |
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Catherine,
I will celebrate your life. Thank you for touching so many lives, you are loved.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 23:34 Host: S0106000d3a27fe1e.vc.shawcable.net |
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She was whole hearted, quick witted and bright spirited. She lived life intensely and was ever generous.
She was deeply cared about by many, and many were touched by her goodness and cared deeply for her.
She was true.
We mourn and remember.
So sorry Shaira.
love, Anina.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 23:16 Host: S01060017f227cdf5.gv.shawcable.net |
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Catherine... You were there for me when I was living in a Women's Recovery House, who was diagnosed as Trans, and had a prescription for Testosterone, but was told if I male identified in any way, I was out. You were there for me from the beginning and you generously gave your time to me for over a year as I went through my transition. I can not begin to say all that I would like to say, but spending that hour with you every second week was a joy to me. You just accepted me for who I was, and I have to say Ms. Catherine, I felt loved. We shared alot and laughed alot and I will never forget your laughing eyes, and the warmth that you filled a room. I am blessed to have known you. It breaks my heart that your life has ended so suddenly and far too soon. It breaks my heart that your partner, family and so many others are hurting this bad. God Speed Ms. Catherine! Always, Koen
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 23:08 IP: 96.54.180.248 |
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I had the privilege of meeting Catherine only a few times, but her warmth, welcome, humour, and powerful energy were immediate and indelible.
Shaira, my heart is with you and all those who knew and loved Catherine. The love you had for each other leapt out and touched everyone around you.
Catherine's love and compassion lives in everyone who remembers her -- and they are so many.
Love to you.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 22:53 Host: d66-183-11-11.bchsia.telus.net |
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Simply put, knowing Catherine made me want to be a more compassionate counselor, better member of our team, and a more loving partner. Knowing her was a gift.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 22:35 Host: d154-20-197-100.bchsia.telus.net |
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Oh Catherine, I see your beautiful smile and your hair flowing as you sit on the bike with Shaira. Such a big and beautiful spirit. I am so sad that you have left so soon. Your spirit is still very present as so many of us hold you in our hearts and remember.
Dear Shaira, I am sending you love. There are no words to express such loss.
love, Miljenka
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 22:00 Host: S01060016363af052.vc.shawcable.net |
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Dear Shaira,
Our thoughts are with you at this very difficult time.It's clear a very bright light has gone out too soon. Sending you our love and prayers.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 21:20 Host: d154-20-108-52.bchsia.telus.net |
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Catherine, you brought a wonderful, beautiful energy into the world. You shone so bright.
Shaira, I can't imagine what you are going through. Just know that a whole lot of people are holding you close to their hearts right now.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 21:20 IP: 66.183.98.86 |
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so very sorry. An amazing spirit..my prayers to all those who are really struggling.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 20:37 Host: S01060011d83e9bb9.vc.shawcable.net |
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since sunday crying cowgirls
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 20:10 Host: S0106000f66a92e00.vc.shawcable.net |
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Dearest Catherine,
You were the most genuine person that I have come to know. I will miss your warm heart, kind words, and daily check-ins. The impact of the amazing work that you have done for our community will go on for years, and all those who you have touched will think of you often with the fondest of memories.
Missing your smiling face...
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 18:52 IP: 139.173.54.11 |
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i am in absolute shock and can't believe this news... shaira, my heart goes out... to lose someone sooo dear is sooo unimaginable... sending much light to you and your family and friends..............
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 18:48 Host: S0106001d09962cc1.vc.shawcable.net |
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Thank you catherine for sharing your energy with us. You have taught me so much about self healing and self care. You showed me so much about grace and strength through leading by example.
Your lessons are with me still and will always be.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 18:39 Host: S0106001839c510e2.ok.shawcable.net |
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my heart goes out to you sid,many years of hellos, with catherine always warmed my heart. a very weloming women who greeted one so well you truely felt seen, and heard.
what can i offer you sid is so many prayers as i often sit in sweatlodge.i would be honored to lead a sweat for u and your close friends. love bonnie
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 18:14 Host: S0106001ff33f051e.vn.shawcable.net |
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Thank you so much for all your help. Every inch of it was invaluable, You are and always will be the best at what you did. You were a one of a kind who deserved no less than pure absolute respect. God bless you
Thank you Thank you Thank you
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 18:02 Host: d207-216-127-165.bchsia.telus.net |
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I knew Catherine for 5 or 6 years through seeing her as a counselor at 3bridges.
At some point she switched to doing more housing advocacy than therapy work. Knowing that i had a hard time talking to people, she let me keep seeing her as a counselor never told me that her job had changed. It was this kind of selfless thankless kindness that makes me think she was bar none the warmest, most honestly loving person i have ever met.
She was the only other person on earth that knew my whole story, and i got to know almost none of hers. I thought one day when i was better maybe we could meet go for coffee as something like friends.
Reading the notes here i am reassured that, as i imagined, she had a life filled with warm wonderful people.
I am sorry if these ramblings of a stranger are out of place but her passing has crushed me.
My heart goes out to all of her friends, her family and her community.
thank you so much Catherine
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 18:01 Host: S0106001111051bf2.vc.shawcable.net |
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I've been trying to find the right words... they escape me. Catherine, you touched the hearts and lives of so many in such a powerful way. You will be missed. Shaira, sending you thoughts of much love and peace, and may you have many friends around you during this difficult time. Hugs...
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 17:51 Host: d207-6-59-93.bchsia.telus.net |
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Catherine was a fierce femme with a bold and beautiful spirit. We will so miss her bright light.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 17:42 Host: c-24-23-241-224.hsd1.ca.comcast.net |
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Catherine and I worked together in the DTES
Whenever we saw each other it was always so great
we remained friends over the years
Her passing is devastating
I am so sad, we have lost a pioneer and a hero
my deepest sympathies to her partner, family and friends
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 17:40 Host: s64-180-61-225.bc.hsia.telus.net |
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Catherine, your life and legacy lives on through your clients and through all the staff that you have touched at Three Bridges. You have certainly impacted mine and I will always carry you forward as an inspiration. Missing you.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 17:09 Host: S0106002312fc26b2.vc.shawcable.net |
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i send warmth from my heart. there isn't language for what i really want to say......everytime i write something , words just dont do it justice.......... I am so sorry Sid.i can only imagine how you must be feeling and my heart aches for you.
Catherin White Holman Radiated such beautiful energy. even I, who didn't know her for very long could see and feel her warm spirit and exuberant presence from a mile away. i adored watching Sid and Catherine together, my heart would swell in the company of their love for one another. Such beautiful human connection and love between two beings......
To my Vancouver Family....
Im so sorry for your Loss of such an amazing piece of your beautiful family.
i wish i had the power to ease the pain you must be feeling.
I Love You All
I Love You Sid...
I Love You Catherine White Holman
You Were and Are Well loved.
It is Amazing, but not surprising
How many Lives your beautiful Soul has Touched.
My Heart is With You
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 17:06 Host: cpe-75-84-14-102.socal.res.rr.com |
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Catherine
The world is a better place because of you. I will miss your smile, your laughter, and your generous spirit. Jack, Penny, and I were just speaking of their wonderful recent visit to Vancouver.
Love and light to Shaira, Johanna, and all members of your extended and wonderful family.
Billy
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 15:25 Host: pool-98-114-178-17.phlapa.fios.verizon.net |
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It's hard to find the words. Cathrine, beautiful spirit, you lived with such integrity and such courage and so much love. I miss your laughter, your wicked humour, and the gentle care you had for everyone around you.
We all shined a little brigter when you were with us.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 14:37 IP: 66.183.96.151 |
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Like many, I'm still shaking my head to wrap my mind around the idea that the bright light shining through this wonderful woman, that clearly touched so many people with inspiration and hope and fun, just won't be there anymore. For me, Catherine was one of those warm acquaintances. No matter how much time had passed between us seeing each other, sometimes years, we still had a smile and a fond hello that said 'I remember you through a lot of years and a lot of experiences in this community of ours'. I will miss this.
Shaira, I am so very sorry for the loss of this lovely, wonderful woman in your life.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 14:31 Host: nvcrb160070.smarttadsl.com |
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Catherine... what a tremendous shock to find that the sometimes randomness of fate has hit so close to home. Thank you for your kindness, support and encouragement when I badly needed someone to talk to at 3 Bridges not so many years ago. You always had an almost uncanny abilty to make me feel calmer and less alone. For that I will always remember you.
My sincere condolences to your family and friends, and to all those who will miss your smile and warmth.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 14:24 Host: S010600e04d7a2084.ok.shawcable.net |
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Shaira: A piece of you was unfairly taken away. My heart goes out to you and all those that loved Catherine. I only had a short time with Catherine, but she was so full of life and love. She will never be forgotten.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 14:04 IP: 154.5.13.124 |
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Dear Shaira, my heart goes out to you in this most painful time. May your memories of Catherine keep you together, with the help of friends, in the days and months to come. This letter to Catherine is for you too.
Love, Pat
Dear Catherine, you are a bright light that will never fade. I hope you are hearing the love pouring out from all those who are grieving for, and missing, you. I think you are.
When I think of you, I think of your gorgeous smile, your beautiful long hair, your up-frontedness, your caring for others, you and Shaira leading off Dykes on Bikes in the Pride Parade, and many more images.
I can't remember when I first met you but I know it's a long time ago. I enjoyed watching you and Shaira perfecting the waltz in our dance class, getting ready for your wedding. I was surprised and happy to see you helping out at the BOLD conference this year.
Passing over to the next stage of your journey is hard for those who are left behind, because we really don't know what's on the other side. May it be a place of joy, a meeting of friends and family who have gone before you, and lots of laughter.
What is Remembered, Lives.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 13:44 Host: S0106000a27d8d982.vc.shawcable.net |
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Dearest Shaira, Our hearts go out to you. We don't have the words to express our deepest sadness we are feeling. If we can help or support you in any way please do not hesitate to call upon us. We will miss Catherine and remember her as the strong wonderfull and caring women that she was. Please accept our love support and friendship.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 12:51 Host: S01060015f207d1e9.vc.shawcable.net |
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One of the most caring, warm nice person that i have ever met at first i was hesitant to talk to her but the moment that she smile at me theres something that inside my heart could tell that the friendship starts.. i feel so sad for the sudden of your death.. i am speechless coz all i feel right now is the deep pain inside me that i lose a friend that makes me feel good and support me emotionally.. sometimes i cant stop questioning god why he always took the nice people in this earth but ive realize that he has his reason why hes doing that...i want to say thank you, thank you for all the inspiring words that u aall said to me for believing in me and for making a difference in my life.. catherine supposed ot be im seeing u this dec 17 at the clinic but u are gone now... i will miss those laugh and warm smile who makes me feel happy too... to me ur are my second mom here in canada i was supposed to give u the xmas gift that i prepare for u but now u are gone... i will surely miss u i know that u are in a good hands now and god will take care of u as u are one of his precious babies... god gave u to us to share a person who is wonderful like a gem more than a gem or diamond.. not seeing u anymore makes me feel really sad but this is what god wants and he knows that how good u are... thank you again catherine i still have the appointment card that u gave me with your last handwriting on it i willkeep it and i will not throw it i will put it in my album...we will miss you... god knows how painful it is but i know that he will help us to recover from this sad news...so long catherine til we meet again we all love you
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 12:49 Host: S010600235aa09b3f.vs.shawcable.net |
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Catherine, such a wonderful, gentle, loving person. When our paths crossed on the occasion of gay pride or the LGBT patient care seminars at UBC, the brief times we spent conversing were so memorable and pleasurable.
Knowing I won't be seeing her again saddens me deeply.
Kindest thoughts to Shaira, and all who mourn and celebrate this magnificent human being.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 12:18 Host: S0106001b63ac5428.vc.shawcable.net |
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Sometimes words really aren't enough. I am so deeply sorry for your loss, Shaira, and my heart goes out to everyone who loves Catherine. She brightened our community and her contributions will never be forgotten.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 12:17 Host: dhcp551-2-98.dsl.ucc-net.ca |
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Hello Shaira - My thoughts are with you at this time. Though I did not have the pleasure to get to know Catherine, I could see the love between the two of you each time I see you together. That is, indeed, something to keep close to your heart. I am sure Catherine will be sorely missed by everyone she's touched. - Nick
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 12:14 IP: 96.49.147.58 |
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My heart breaks for everyone who is feeling Catherine's loss. Her strength and caring in her personal and professional life are an inspiration to me. I thank Catherine for all of the work she has done for our community.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 12:09 IP: 139.173.54.11 |
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Know that now you are gone that your Beloved has all the support and love and care that the Family/Tribe/Community can provide. We'll take care of her together. But you know that.
I spent time with you in my dreams last night. But you know that too.
What I didn't say was how much I mourn the conversations left half completed and the ones to come. What I didn't say is how much I was looking forward to a future that included things left incomplete and that could be done.
I squandered the time I had while you were physically here. I always thought there would be more. Tomorrow and next week and next month; and after this holiday or that event or the next party; when there was less stress or more sleep...
Thank you for teaching - yet again teaching - this time, the value of life and connection. How costly are grudges and pettiness and ego. And, as you have shown us all, how glorious the light that shines through when one lives wholly with compassion and devotion to one's loves and those one comes in contact with in community. Your loyalty and love for your Beloved always shone through when I was in the presence of you two.
Rest well. We'll take care of her. And we'll keep you alive inside of us while your legacy lives on in the way the world works.
!Kona
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 11:56 Host: S010600179a9bffdb.vc.shawcable.net |
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Since I heard the news, all I have been able to do is look for people to hug and hold - to share with them memories and tears, to lessen the weight on their hearts for a brief moment and to wipe away tears. Sid, I grieve with you and for you, and join the city in mourning a dear, dear woman and friend - our Catherine.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 11:34 Host: s207-6-61-250.ab.hsia.telus.net |
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My heart goes out to all those who loved her. The world is now missing a bright light.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 11:33 Host: mail3.fraserhealth.ca |
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I have no idea what words to use to express the sadness in my heart. Dearest Catherine, you already seemed beyond this world, even when you were here on this earth. The light that shone from your heart, enveloping all the hearts that were lucky enough to encounter yours - will forever glow inside mine. Thank you for touching mine so.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 11:31 Host: c-67-169-69-31.hsd1.ca.comcast.net |
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Heard of the horrible crash on news, but did 't realie it was the same Catherine White I'd known in Salmon Arm 30 years ago! Glad to hear you were in a loving relationship and among dear friends. I hope these friends and loved ones continue in the work that meant so much to many people.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 11:27 Host: wlc-1-61.cablelan.net |
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Catherine was a spark of light. She welcomed me, a stranger, into the community. Her beautiful spark will be sorely missed. Kind thoughts and gentle energy to her family and friends. You are in my prayers.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 11:07 Host: 141.sub-166-143-45.myvzw.com |
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I am so saddened to hear about Catherine's passing. I had the pleasure of meeting Catherine almost 10 years ago as a client at Three Bridges. She helped me up from one of the darkest points in my life and I could easily say, was one the kindest and most compassionate people I have ever met. I will always remember her kind words and smiling eyes--I am so deeply sorry for all others whom are grieving her loss. She will be missed so much.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 10:30 Host: d154-20-57-3.bchsia.telus.net |
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Although I only just met you, your courtesy and kindness was taken to heart.
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My heart is broken and the tears have not stopped since hearing the devastating news several hours ago. Catherine, your heart and spirit is bigger than life. The fact that I could call you 'friend' is an honor that I will never take for granted.
All my love and support to you Shaira. Please know that the circle of love and friendship that surrounds you is far and wide and deep.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 08:26 Host: modemcable112.7-22-96.mc.videotron.ca |
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Dear Shaira, It is with shock and sadness that I write this. While I was only getting to know you both, my experience of your beautiful wife and partner, was of incredible warmth, vivacity, and acceptance. A beautiful spirit... The pain you are living through must be imaginable. My thoughts are with you.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 08:07 Host: d207-216-255-199.bchsia.telus.net |
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Catherine, the most Elegant, Distinguished, Beautiful, Brilliant Woman in many ways over.
Mind, Body, and Soul
Oh Catherine, I am truly blessed to have known someone who made the world shine like you.
Irreplaceable in so many ways.
Shaira, the love you and Catherine shared, is beyond anything I had ever even imagined could exist. It will never be lost. That kind of special love transcends time and space, you may have only held her hand a short time, but your hearts will hold each other forever.
You and Catherine are held close in my thoughts and prayers, as well as all who are touched by our loss.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 07:58 IP: 208.76.113.2 |
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Catherine lived more each day than many people do in their whole lives. Some of the ways I'll always remember her:
My first visit to Studio Q, Catherine sitting at that little table at the door in her black jumper, greeting me with a such a warm hello and welcoming smile that let me know I was indeed in the right place. How many people do you actually remember the very first time you met them? Catherine made an impression.
Seeing Shaira and Catherine at parties, how in a room full of people, they together created a magical space around them that seemed a world unto itself.
The very best tic-tac-toe game EVER at the Roundhouse.
The radiant bride, silver dress and silver hair glowing like an angel.
The sheer power of her focused attention, so that when she listened to you, you knew you were really heard.
Her catholic tastes that have forever changed the way I look at Christianity.
The pride and love shining in her eyes whenever she spoke of Shaira, about her art, or their first date, or their travels, or their daily lives. Theirs was a truly epic love story, of the kind poets write about.
A level of modesty so great that it was only after knowing Catherine for years that I began to have an inkling of her accomplishments at work.
Laughing, so often laughing, whether that deep rich knowing laughter, or squeals of girlish glee at Fright Night at the PNE.
The way she made me feel special, and valued, and beautiful every time she addressed me as "Sweetness".
Oh Sweet Catherine, who made so many people feel special and valued, I can only hope you really knew how special and valued and loved you were to so many. I know I never told you, and surely I'm not the only one. I always thought there would be time later, when life quietened down, to talk more, to laugh more, to play. It will always be among my greatest regrets that I left it too long. It is unfathomable that someone with so much vitality can be gone. If ever there was a life well-lived, it was yours.
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Oh Shaira, I'm so sorry.
I'm living in India and by chance came across an article in the Globe.
May all the love, the prayers and the memories bring in the light and carry you gently through this overwhelming loss.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 04:04 IP: 59.90.69.137 |
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Shaira, Remembering you describing Catherine to me and how much you enjoyed being married to her. Sending you love.
Wednesday, December 02, 2009 at 01:57 Host: ip-80-238-1-134.bskyb.com |
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I am in shock and cannot imagine the devastating pain you must be in, Shaira. This tragedy is beyond words.
I was only just getting to know Catherine. She truly was an exceptional woman. When I was around her, I felt enveloped by warmth and acceptance. And she was also lots of fun and naughty. I wish I had had more opportunities to spend time with her. She left us way too soon. I’m going to miss Catherine ... a lot.
Shaira and Catherine, you are in my thoughts and my heart. I love you.
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I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you.
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Such an amazing woman Catherine was. She was always there to lend a hand, an ear, her words, gentleness and her kindness. She leaves behind a large community of friends from far and wide that have always admired her gentle kind soul. What a terrible loss to those you have left behind. We will surely miss you but you will always live in our hearts.
Shaira, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope the words sent here will ease your grief and bring you some comfort. I am one of the many that you know who are holding you and Catherine in their prayers.
For Catherine’s closest friends in Vancouver, I pray that your friendships will help in supporting each other. She is leaving a hole in your community that is irreplaceable. My prayers are with you as you walk through this difficult time.
Catherine was loved by many and will be deeply missed by all.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 23:14 Host: c-67-183-16-205.hsd1.wa.comcast.net |
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Catherine,
I went to see you for counseling at three bridges in 2006. For about a year and a half, you became an anchor for me through a very dark and scary time for me. I am so lucky for all the help from your guidance and caring words and all your listening that you did.
As a trans person who was transitioning at the time, I was so scared of anyone judging me and seeing a councilor was a very vulnerable thing for me to do. I'm just so lucky that there was someone like you with awesome trans politics to give me some gentle guidance towards a better path in life.
Since I've been doing alot better I'd always meant to send you a letter and thank you and let you know that I'm ok now. It sure is shitty that I'm doing it this way. I'm not sure if you ever new how much you helped me then and the tools you gave me for life still help me and always will. It sounds cheesy but its all true.
My heart goes out to all that had the privilege to be close to you.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 23:03 Host: S0106001ec21b2e36.vc.shawcable.net |
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Catherine was my therapist and friend in the Community for the past five years. (Three Bridges told her to reluctantly let those of her clientele who were employed off the list last Spring but I was hoping to keep in touch, especially at the Queer Film Festival)
She helped me through many issues and reaffirmed me as a middle aged gay man like few other gay men even could. She was a real sister. :)
During one session Catherine told me that she believed that this life is probably all we have so it is important to live every moment to its fullest, every day is new potential. And that is how she lived.
Through the teacher's strike we both railed at the stupidity and tragedy of the current Campbell government and its policies; Catherine always thinking of the disenfranchises and those of us trying to help them.
I still can't believe this tragedy. Male denial and looking for some 'cause' being actively resisted in order to just accept at this point.
Elaine, close friends, and family I'm so sorry for your loss, be strong but more importantly, let yourself be truly who you are and where you are at, at this time [not said well but you know what I mean].
If there is a Celebration of Life, and singers, I would be happy to play guitar or accompany. stephenemery@shaw.ca
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 22:58 Host: S010600501850079f.vc.shawcable.net |
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I didn't realize until today that Catherine was one of the people on that plane; this is so shocking and sad. I only knew Catherine in a professional context - we met about 12 years ago, when I was just starting out in advocacy. Over the years, we spoke occasionally - we probably last spoke a month ago - and she was always incredibly devoted and capable. One of my most poignant advocacy cases was sent to me by Catherine, who, in the course of her work, came across a neglected, borderline mentally challenged older man, who had been living on the fringes of society for years. She finally got him the attention he needed. Without her kindness and commitment, his life would have been much, much harder.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 22:58 Host: S01060014bf0d54cc.vc.shawcable.net |
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Shaira our hearts are with you. We can't believe Catherine is gone. She was one vibrant, bright light, as authentic as anyone could be. Her smile and pride and passion have touched so many lives. It was an honour to know her. We send you love and may Catherine's spirit help you through this.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 22:54 Host: S010600184d877a73.vc.shawcable.net |
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I worked with Catherine many years ago. We had lost touch but I always remembered her laughter and her tremendous warmth. I am deeply saddened that the world is without her. My condolences to all her loved ones.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 22:49 Host: S0106001d72d9db1d.vc.shawcable.net |
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I'm very sad to learn of Catherine's death. Our paths crossed in unexpected and infrequent ways. These chance encounters always left me feeling charged by her vitality, warmth and integrity. I'm so sorry...
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 22:05 Host: S0106001a9240ca1a.vc.shawcable.net |
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I worked with Catherine at the Downtown Eastside Women's Centre when I first moved to Vancouver many years ago. She was bold, fun, passionate and a force to be reckoned with. I learned a lot from her. I took two photos at the Pride Parade this past August - and one of them is of Catherine in the Dykes on Bikes - shirtless, grinning, thick mane of hair flowing. I've sent the photo to our mutual friend, Klodyne. My condolences to Shaira and all those who loved Catherine.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 21:34 Host: d207-6-251-244.bchsia.telus.net |
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I was grieved to hear of Catherine's loss. We all lost, together. She would have appreciated the communality.
From Amichai:
A person doesn't have time to have time for everything.
They don't have enough seasons to have a season for every purpose.
Ecclesiastes was wrong about that.
A person needs to love and to hate at the same moment,
To laugh and to cry with the same eyes,
with the same hands to cast away stones and to gather them,
to make love in war, and make war in love.
And to hate and to forgive, and to remember and to forget,
and to arrange and to confuse, to eat and to digest
what history
takes years and years to do...
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I was grieved to hear of Catherine's loss. We all lost, together. Sse would have appreciated the communality.
From Amichai:
A person doesn't have time to have time for everything.
They don't have enough seasons to have a season for every purpose. Ecclesiastes was wrong about that.
A person needs to love and to hate at the same moment,
To laugh and to cry with the same eyes,
with the same hands to cast away stones and to gather them,
to make love in war, and make war in love.
And to hate and to forgive, and to remember and to forget,
and to arrange and to confuse, to eat and to digest
what history
takes years and years to do...
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When I first met CatherineI knew I was in the right place. Her openess and understanding that she showed in helping me get out the "dark side" as she called it. How greatful I'm to her for that guideness. Thank you again Catherine.
Shaira & Catherine were part of many event at the hotel. They were a couple in love and knew had to spread it. This will all be deeply missed by the family of friend they had. Shaira my sincere condolences to you at this time, words cannot express the feelings we all have.May you have peace from having been a part of this wonderful lady's life......Catherine.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 21:15 Host: S010600142a1e65f3.vc.shawcable.net |
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Lady Catherine, your beauty and grace will be missed. I will never forget your sanity & generosity at a time in my life when both were needed. I am in shock at this horrible news, and my heart goes out to Shaira & to your family. You are well loved. Rest in peace, gentle lady.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 20:58 Host: S01060016762aeebe.vc.shawcable.net |
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I can't believe this has happened. I am thinking of all the people whose lives she has touched, all the spirits she lifted. Catherine's impact on my life was nothing short of life-saving.
My deepest condolences go out to all of Catherine's family & folks.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 20:30 Host: S0106003065836f1c.vc.shawcable.net |
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Shaira, my thoughts are with you. Words simply aren't enough. Catherine was loved by all that knew her, for a good reason. I feel right blessed that I was able to find out why first hand. I didn't know her well, but that never mattered to her.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 20:27 IP: 209.121.76.45 |
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I don't begin to know what to say about something so unexpected and shattering. I've known Catherine little more than a year, but it was more than enough time for her to make an impression. I was always struck by her sincere warmth, and her immediate acceptance of me during a period of difficult self-exploration is something I will carry in my heart. My dear Catherine, you were much too short a time in all of our lives, and your passing is indeed a great loss to the community.
Please keep Rita and myself in the loop as to what we can do for those who are most keenly feeling this loss. I would be more than happy to bring a warm meal by the house for Shaira and those whom I know are there supporting her on the front lines--particularly once the initial flurry of activity has passed and we all may not think to offer as readily.
With deep sadness and great love,
Catherine
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 20:17 Host: S0106002129ab48e5.vc.shawcable.net |
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Words are very hard to come by in trying to express how sincerely sorry we are for the loss of Catherine to those who knew and loved her. She left her mark in time and place and will not be forgotten.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 19:52 Host: S01060010dc54c1a9.vc.shawcable.net |
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I am still in a bit of shock- I only found out a few hours ago and I'm still struggling to comprehend that Catherine is gone. Catherine was a role model to me in so many ways; she was deeply caring in both her personal and professional life, and managed the overlap of the two with grace, tact and compassion. The Queer & Trans communities will never be the same without her.
I've known Catherine for 15 years now, and still recall her attending various parties at my home. I loved her humor, strong presence and overall fierceness.
I only just spoke to Catherine a few nights ago- she was helping me through a difficult time and she was her usual calm, strong and supportive, self.
To Shaira and all those that Catherine loved, please accept my heartfelt condolences. Catherine- I loved you much and will miss you more.
Love Miss Nikki.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 19:39 Host: S0106003065836f1c.vc.shawcable.net |
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Catherine.
We knew each other from a distance mostly, and some time back, not recently.
My memories of you will be how open, welcoming, genuine, strong yet gentle but especially how unconditionally accepting you seemed to be.
No matter where, no matter when.
Thank you. For the gift of those reminders; of what the best human beings are made of; of what we can all aspire to be. Sorry you had to go so soon.
Shaira,
I can't imagine.
Sending you thoughts of Courage, Strength and Peace.
Friends, family, all who knew and were touched by Catherine: may we be there for each other.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 19:33 Host: d207-81-41-116.bchsia.telus.net |
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Words cannot express the feelings of love and the healing wishes I send out to an entire community, not only so very blessed by Catherine's presence, but who will continue to carry her spirit. Catherine you will be missed by so many.
If there is anything I can do to assist with a memorial, please know I am here to help with anything I can.
Lots of peace and love to you Shaira.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 19:30 Host: S01060018f8347291.vc.shawcable.net |
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Reading thru all these condolence thoughts, I'm struck again and again by the huge circle of life that surrounded Catherine, the hundreds and more that were so connected to her, and had the precious gift of knowing and loving her. What a joy that we have been seen through her beautiful eyes, her outrageous laugh, her depth of caring and sharing. If you ever went out for Thai food and beer with her, you had the joy sharing that love of hers, as well.
Many loving thoughts to all those who have known and cared about Catherine - her precious family, friends, and colleagues.
And much love to you, my gentle friend Catherine.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 18:35 Host: S0106001b639d67a1.gv.shawcable.net |
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a beautiful soul
taken from those that loved (and still love) way too soon.
Gracious, Kind, Warm, Beautiful.
Missed.
I hardly knew you..yet yes felt the energy, the spirit that so many loved.
Never more will the wind
Cherish you again,
Never more will the rain.
Never more
Shall we find you bright
In the snow and the wind.
The snow is melted
The snow is gone,
And you are flown:
Like a bird out of our hand,
Like a light out of our heart,
You are gone.
(Hilda Doolittle)
our hearts shudder..
Blessings to you.
Warm hugs friends.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 18:35 Host: S0106000d88f1bfa7.vc.shawcable.net |
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My deepest sympathies to Catherine's family and close friends.
An amazing woman, an amazing advocate. The GLBT will never be the same without her.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 18:08 Host: S01060019b9862876.vc.shawcable.net |
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The first thing that struck me about Catherine was how when she looked at me, she really looked genuinely. Spoke honestly. Smiled kindly. Embraced warmly. Laughed wholeheartedly.
Catherine, you touched my heart. Thank-you for those moments.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 17:56 IP: 207.216.70.133 |
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I'll remember you, the Queen of the North who came down with royal entourage to Outer Limits' medieval feast that weekend in the late eighties...how your Irish eyes always smiled mischievously from behind your holy veil of hair...and how you comforted without a fuss a broken-hearted mum who'd lost her son. These and other thoughts from long lovely years of memories that I must preserve with care, for there will be no more.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 17:01 Host: c-98-246-75-10.hsd1.or.comcast.net |
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I can't really believe that someone who was so alive, isn't anymore. I don't have words to express how much of a loss this is. Love and strength to her families.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 16:32 Host: 107-119-60-199.ip.eciad.ca |
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Sid,
Words are simply too inefficient to describe my sorrow for what has happened and the heartbreak you, Catherine’s friends, family and community are feeling. I trust that thoughts, mantras and energy will find their way to one and all.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 16:07 IP: 142.232.86.97 |
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I did not know Catherine and only just met her in this past year... i felt her warmth and light immediately and was at a complete ease in her presence. She had such a beautiful light and love for life... My love goes out to all of you in Vancouver; Shaira, Elaine, Arli, River, Roni and all the rest of Catherine's beautiful family and friends... i am deeply sorry for your personal loss and our loss as a community. She will be missed by everyone so very much... I know folks in Seattle, Portland, SF and all the way down the coast and to the East are mourning... oh Catherine, you will be missed.
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It was only in the last year that I got to know Catherine, but she was the kind of person that you can’t help but love immediately. I loved her, and I will miss her.
I send much love and strength to Shaira and to everyone dearest to her.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 15:47 Host: d173-183-68-19.bchsia.telus.net |
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I was in a store today when the news of the crash was broadcast. I heard Catherine's name. "No!," I said aloud, "It couldn't be." But it was.
Words are simply insufficient. I cannot imagine your grief, Sid, or yours, Elaine. It doesn't matter that we all share it...well, hopefully it does. I am so very, very sorry.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 15:36 Host: S0106001cc01ddf12.vc.shawcable.net |
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Such a gracious light she was.
Much love and healing to Sid and all whom she loved and touched and helped.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 15:24 Host: d66-183-10-250.bchsia.telus.net |
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Catherine was very kind to me as I undertook studies in my master of science in nursing program at Three Bridges Community Health Center. I only 6 days ago last saw her walking down Drake Street and waved at her. My grief and condolences go to Shaira and all the women she loved.
Barney
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 14:52 Host: S0106002215207bdb.vc.shawcable.net |
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Taken too soon, but for what? We may never know.
Catherine is on a new adventure and has left many loved ones
with the precious memories of knowing her and loving her.
What a gift she has given. What a gift to be cherished.
Shaira, our hearts are with you.
Love and a really long hug, Sandra & Jo
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 14:24 Host: S01060050e440d075.vc.shawcable.net |
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You brought such peace, you welcomed all. Your love and devotion was an inspiration. You are so missed. All those who love you will never stop.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 14:23 Host: S0106001cdf736c1b.vc.shawcable.net |
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I have some very fond memories of watching Sid and Cathering from afar at different events. A most striking couple, and completely devoted to each other.
Sid, I am so so sorry you must endure this heartbreaking loss and please know that your sisters and brothers are here for you to lean on.....together as we mourn for Catherine.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 14:03 IP: 70.99.248.94 |
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deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences to Shaira and all those who loved Catherine.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 13:37 Host: d99-199-109-227.bchsia.telus.net |
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I remember how very kind Catherine was to me in a very dark time in my life. She had agreed to write a letter on my behalf when I found myself having to fight the insurance company for benefits. How truely rare it was at that time in my life, to find someone who understood my PTSD. I knew she did, I could feel it and I knew it even more when I read her kind words.
I feel very privileged to have known her
My heart goes out to all of you who loved her.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 13:04 Host: S010600248c8c9e06.vf.shawcable.net |
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Catherine and I were colleagues, who immediately recognized kindred spirits in each other and stole time from our hectic work lives to fit in lunches to talk, support, energize and laugh. She was the most alive person I have ever known, and it isn't fathomable that she isn't here anymore. Reading others' notes, I'm struck by how totally congruent and real she was - loving and engaging - every one. Although I no longer live in Vancouver, just knowing she is no longer changing community and lightening our lives, makes me miss her more. I always felt fuller after having time with her. Thank you Catherine.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 13:01 Host: d216-232-229-180.bchsia.telus.net |
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News went out fast among many of Catherine's closest friends, on the dreadful night of the crash. We'd heard there were possible survivors, and so very many of us gathered together at a friend's house, holding hands and telling stories and hoping, and hoping, and hoping. There were so many of us that we overflowed the furniture and sat on the floor, shoulder-to-shoulder.
We shushed each other desperately whenever the phone rang or the radio announcements came on, and worried about Shaira and our other dear ones who were with her at the airport. We hoped and dreaded into the small hours of the morning.
When the terrible answer came to us, and we heard our Catherine was gone, had you been walking by the house at the time you would have heard the entire houseful of people burst into tears as one.
Like a choir of sorrow, folks have been joining us in tears as they're heard the news, and as they take time to remember how Catherine touched their lives.
I find myself having a duet of tears with each person I love, who also loved Catherine. And that was everybody, wasn't it?
O Catherine, who else's passing could cause so many of us to cry at once? I hear the echo of tears from our friends in Palm Springs, in Los Angeles, in Portland, in Seattle. But most of all, those of us in Vancouver.
This whole damn city is crying for you, Catherine.
And, my dearest friend, I will miss you fiercely in each of the days still to come. I love you.
- Elaine
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 12:09 Host: d99-199-101-130.bchsia.telus.net |
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Much, much too soon for you to leave us...we will miss your smile, laughter, kindness. We hold you, Sid and all of your many friends close and tight to our hearts. Until next time....xxxooo
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 10:57 Host: 24.sub-70-192-93.myvzw.com |
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I'm stunned and saddened. My heart goes out to all of her friends and family.
Allena
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 10:52 IP: 70.99.151.139 |
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Dear sweet beautiful Catherine, a piece of my heart is with you. Beautiful Lady I will carry your elegance, joy , warmth and sweet smile with me always. We are all the better for knowing you. Thank you for the love you gave us all. -Lainy
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 10:50 Host: 24.sub-70-192-93.myvzw.com |
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For the short time I got to know you, I have a feeling you would appreciate this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQrq7nLPHEw
Rest in peace my friend...
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 10:47 IP: 66.183.111.247 |
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Well, good christ, as Catherine would say. Her laugh, is what is ringing in me now, and what will be with us all for all time. I am comforted only by knowing how pissed she'd be and pulling back her hair from her forehead and saying "what the hell...?"
Shaira, she was so glad to have found you, so very much in love with you every minute. She is here, among us all, of course. I hope you feel all our arms. My sad heart to yours.
Love,
Caitlin
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 10:40 Host: 75-92-47-95.war.clearwire-wmx.net |
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Catherine was always so very nice to me. I remember running into her at a BBQ behind Little Sister's where we kept doing that "do I know that person" look. She seemed so open that we went over and asked. Turns out we did know each other mostly through community and she was so nice and friendly and several times said she was glad we came over and talked to her. That welcoming spirit was such a constant thing I saw in her. I will miss her friendly face welcoming me into the WISE Hall and her laughing joyfully, as she always made a point of appreciating out silly outfits. Shaira, I cannot imagine your pain, she was such a lovely person. My heartfelt condolences go out to you.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 10:14 Host: S0106000d9d4346e4.vc.shawcable.net |
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catherine, though i did not have the opportunity to spend many days with you, the time we spent together was always valuable to me. Thank you for sharing yourself with us.
Sid, Olga and i offer our deep and heartfelt condolences. No words can ease your pain, nor take away your suffering and we know this. Please know that you are in our hearts and we are here for you.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 10:14 IP: 159.115.195.4 |
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Catherine was *always* so kind to me, even during a dark time in my life when I could only be mean. I will always remember her in the silvery wedding gown Jack made for her, and the warm excited smile she most always wore. I always said that the Irish are the lost tribe of Israel, and she laughed in agreement, though she never seemed lost as part of the Family you shared...
Shaira, I send you love... from my broken heart I send you streams of love. "May her memory be for blessing."
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 10:01 Host: c-24-19-26-61.hsd1.wa.comcast.net |
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I am sadden by such a loss of someone so special.
Holding all in my heart with love.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 09:58 Host: 75-92-18-74.war.clearwire-wmx.net |
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To have such a vibrant, loving woman taken so suddenly and so young is a shock beyond measure. My heart goes out to Shaira, I can think of no words that can help. Catherine was a colleague, and a special friend who heard me through deep pain in my life. I will miss her deeply.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 09:56 Host: S01060024369ef3b9.vc.shawcable.net |
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Like so many others touched by Catherine, I am devastated by this loss of an incredible, truly beautiful and compassionate woman. Since we first met sometime ago, maybe five years back or so, I always found myself gravitating towards her, because I loved being around her. Catherine had such a vibrantly warm, welcoming and bright energy. I have cherish the memories from our much-too-brief friendship, but I will always be grateful for the things she taught me. She continues to inspire me to be a powerful, pro-active and positive influence in the world around me.
I also loved watching Catherine and Shaira together, what a deep and profound love they shared – I found such inspiration and joy in them together as well. I'd like to share one of my favorite love poems/songs of all time – it has always made me think of Shaira and Catherine's love, it was written by Friedrich Rückert :
Du meine Seele, du mein Herz,
Du meine Wonne, du mein Schmerz,
Du meine Welt, in der ich lebe,
Mein Himmel du, darein ich schwebe,
O du mein Grab, in das hinab
Ich ewig meinen Kummer gab.
Du bist die Ruh, du bist der Frieden,
Du bist der Himmel mir beschieden.
Daß du mich liebst, macht mich mir wert,
Dein Blick hat mich vor mir verklärt,
Du hebst mich liebend über mich,
Mein guter Geist, mein beßres Ich!
Translation:
You my soul, you my heart,
You my bliss, O you my pain,
You the world in which I live;
My heaven you, in which I float,
O you my grave, into which
I eternally cast my grief.
You are rest, you are peace,
You are bestowed upon me from heaven.
Your love for me makes me worthy of you;
Your eyes transfigures me in mine;
Lovingly you raise me above myself,
my good spirit, my better self!
We loved you Catherine, and we continue to love you, Shaira! Hope that all this outpouring of support, friendship and community, sharing of memories will give you some comfort and hope.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 09:36 Host: 64-46-19-160.dyn.novuscom.net |
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love is what impressed me, whenever we met; love for sid, so obvious and freely flowing..love for her friends, her community, her life, for laughter, for pleasure... she really did light up a room.
i had the great luck to know catherine professionally as well, she was my ace up the sleeve, a promise that my clients would get compassionate, intelligent and effective care.
her willing and grounded heart will be missed, by so many. her absence is keenly felt.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 09:24 IP: 24.80.161.233 |
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Shaira,
I am so acutely aware of the limits of language in this moment, to express my sorry and my heartfelt sympathy for you and your Family. Catherine brought love and kindness to so many, and I am so very saddened by our loss, and your own.
Mary
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 07:42 Host: S0106001ff33e5bcf.vc.shawcable.net |
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Shaira
... my sincerest condolences.
... may there be somehwere and sometime for peace to find its way to your broken heart.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 07:25 Host: d75-157-80-198.bchsia.telus.net |
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My heart goes out to everyone who knew Catherine whether it be in passing or well. She brought light to the lives of everyone she interacted with. She could shift the energy in a room just by walking in. She will continue to be an inspiration.
Sid, I'm sending you as much love and peace as I can muster. I cannot imagine the pain of your loss. Anytime I can be I'm available for anything you might need.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 06:43 Host: S01060023695d5050.gv.shawcable.net |
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Shaira, there are no words adequate for this. I've always admired and liked Catherine, and have seen over and over how she has reached out and helped so many people with her generosity and sensitivity. During the past nearly a decade, I've been repeatedly moved and impressed with the depth and beauty of the connexion between the two of you. My heart goes out to you and the others who carry her in your hearts. Farewell to a truly beautiful person.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 05:16 Host: d75-157-229-197.bchsia.telus.net |
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I just found out in the middle of the day today.
I keep thinking about Catherine after we'd all seen Lucinda Williams. "I didn't realize thin women could be sexy."
She was a beautiful, smart, sexy, kind, funny and gentle woman.
I'm going to miss her. I don't think there are words that can do her justice, or even touch the hurt Shaira must be feeling now.
Just know, Shaira, that I'm thinking of you both with love. If there's anything I can do, please let me know.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 00:56 Host: S01060017c528610f.gv.shawcable.net |
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Catherine was a truly special woman...an angel...She will be sadly missed by many people.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 00:54 Host: S01060015f2e4e5dc.vc.shawcable.net |
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Catherine....how lucky I am to have come home after 4 years, and got to spend nearly 3 weeks with you in your house with Shaira.
Even though we've known eachother for years, this time I really came close to you. I'm happy the last memories I will carry of you were...
a cute little girl in her white night gown getting daddy's tea every morning
long talks over more tea and lattes with laughs, tears and hugs, then more laughs and hugs in between
where we joked our sorrows away
where the house woke up to the sound of us chasing raccoons out of your fish pond
you and Shaira proudly showin' em how it's done in the motorcycle parade
watching nature films, curled up at night
where you gallantly appeared as my faithful chivalrous knight-comrade with the convertible, to whisk two beautiful femmes away in the night. you a made little guy like me appear great
you opened your heart
i saw you sore to new heights, teaching in the ivory tour, a humble irish girl you always thought you were
and no matter what, even when there were hard patches, you believed, you endured and you showed a continual capacity to love
probably the greatest gift you left us all
you were a great teacher to everyone
and i promise i'll put everything i learned from you to good use.
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Catherine's spirit, warmth, kindness, and unwavering belief in each and every person she met amazed me. She warmed hearts, laughed with us, held us when we cried, and always stopped to help if we were in need.
As my mentor, each and every time I saw Catherine she would remind me to trust and have faith in myself; when I couldn't do it, she would. Her belief in me was total, and her love complete. I hear her voice reminding me to trust myself daily.
Catherine, you have changed the lives of so many. I love you from the depths of my heart and soul.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 00:34 Host: 216-19-185-142.dyn.novuscom.net |
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Though I am not always good around people, Catherine made me feel welcome with her warm smile, amazing hugs, and delightful sense of humour.
I first met her when I was a wee lad of 18, and she helped me so much with her sensitivity and integrity. She made me feel safe, and let me know that I was okay.
Thank you for touching my life Catherine, as you no doubt touched many. You were/are amazing.
You are missed.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 at 00:25 Host: S01060013d48e7fee.vc.shawcable.net |
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Dear Syd:
Still reeling from the news. Deeply saddened by Catherine's passing. Met her in the early 1990's with a crew from Vancouver. She had an incredible smile and a wonderful sense of humour. Sending condolences during this difficult time.
Hugs,
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Sid, the connection you and Catherine had was amazing to me. I always enjoyed the few times I heard you two just talking to each other. So cute and so real and connected. I also saw how intense it was, and how much you both meant to each other. I'm sorry you've lost your love, the pain is extremely insane and it hurts me to know that you're having to go through this.
To me, you're a strong figure and I just hope you get through this. My heart goes out to you and Catherine.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 23:56 Host: cpe-75-84-14-102.socal.res.rr.com |
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safe passage for you gentle, beautiful, fierce and deeply loved Catherine.
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Dear Shaira,
I'm so so terribly sorry for the loss of such a beautiful love.
Cris Derksen
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 23:43 Host: S0106001ff3055680.vc.shawcable.net |
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Shaira, I know that words are absolutely inadequate at this time, but do know that my thoughts and love are with you.... I remember you and Catherine giving me a temporary tattoo at Suzo and Emma's. It was an eagle I'm pretty sure.... it was a strong symbol - I know that. I wore it for days.
I am so sorry Shaira. So very sorry.....
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 23:38 Host: d75-157-217-76.bchsia.telus.net |
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Catherine was a truly amazing person. I'm sure there are many of us who have lots of special memories of her, and all I can say at the moment is that I am feeling lucky to have those memories, lucky to have had the opportunity to know her.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 23:31 Host: ip-ppp-dial-sync-net-212-85-218-236.africaonline.co.sz |
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Dear Sid, although I don't know you well, it was easy to see what an awesome love and relationship you and Catherine shared. I'll miss her lovely long hair and her kind smile around the community. You're in my thoughts and I offer condolences to you and all of Catherine's friends and loved ones.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 23:23 Host: S0106000c6e7a6859.vc.shawcable.net |
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I am so, so saddened to hear of this tragic loss. I know that Catherine made a huge difference in the lives of many, many people, including my own. I knew her through work and community connections, and always felt comforted to know she would be at a meeting, a workshop or an event. I valued her perspectives and appreciated her humour and support. She stood out for me as a woman with a sharp intelligence, a vast amount of courage and compassion, and a huge, kind, heart.
My heartfelt condolences to all.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 23:18 Host: d207-216-213-169.bchsia.telus.net |
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catherine -- we love you, we miss your beauty and your warmth. wherever you are, please help shaira through this.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 23:08 Host: S0106002332cd0c4c.vc.shawcable.net |
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This is incredibly tragic. Catherine Holman was such a beautiful person and I was recently in touch with her. As always, she exhibited such tenderness and grace. She will be missed terribly. Shaira: I am so very sorry for your loss. Take care, Elaine Carol
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 23:03 IP: 96.49.82.234 |
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I did not have much of an opportunity to know Catherine well, my loss. Her presence was very large, her spirit so welcoming and her smile so contagious.
She will be missed by so many.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 22:59 Host: c-24-18-183-54.hsd1.wa.comcast.net |
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I've known Catherine in passing awhile but our first time conversing one on one was just a couple weeks ago before the Bear and Coyote event.
She had misplaced a phone and was seeing if it wasn't left behind after a previous event. She was a warm breeze the moment she entered The Hall leaving a pleasant impression, such memorable energy behind such a short visit.
We didn't find the phone. A crowd began to gather. She ordered a beer and stayed for Ivan's love story. Shaira came to meet her.
She loved The WISE Hall. If available at this time, it is available to you and yours.
Sincerest Condolences,
Amy Nugent
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 22:58 Host: d205-250-164-48.bchsia.telus.net |
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Catherine was a woman who made a difference in many communities and her contributions will be deeply and widely missed.
She was a guide and mentor often without intending it and has benefited 2 generations of our family with her wisdom and gifts.
For Shaira and those who were Catherine's closest community, we are sorry for your loss.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 22:58 Host: S0106002129688bb5.vc.shawcable.net |
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Shaira,
I saw and felt such a beautiful connection between you and Catherine at the workshop we both attended in October of this year. Rare for me, I felt such a connection with you both, and an ongoing future relationship developing. My deepest condolences to you in your loss. My prayers, love and friendship are with you. We'll be holding a drumming circle for you both here in NM.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 22:28 IP: 65.55.67.179 |
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Dear Sid,
I'm holding you in my thoughts and prayers through this difficult time.
I only got the chance to be around Catherine a few times, but through the few conversations I had with her, and watching the way she interacted with people, I could tell that a person could not get any more 'real.' I thought about her many times this year because I wanted to be the way she was.
It was hard to not notice how special she was/is, especially with everyone talking about her special-ness before this happened. I feel so fortunate to have met her, and will always carry in my heart the words of wisdom and the sense of humor she shared with me.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 22:22 Host: 70-59-137-167.ptld.qwest.net |
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Dear bright one. I walked in the room that loving brunchy day and you made the most intentional eye contact. That moment told me that I was welcome, home, safe and someone you thought was important to life. The conversations that fell out of that moment will be held forever. You are loved and missed.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 21:30 Host: xx114200083.cipherkey.com |
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I didn't know Catherine well, saw her around a lot and we were in a meditation course together a little while back. I was always struck by her warm and generous smile. She immediately made one at ease. A truly wonderful and inspiring woman - a great loss.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 21:22 Host: S0106000c41494b74.vc.shawcable.net |
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My heart hurts for all my Vancouver family. I know how great an impact Catherine had on all of you.
Catherine was an amazing person, she always made me feel so good and so loved. She was a joy to be around.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 21:11 Host: c-24-17-2-221.hsd1.wa.comcast.net |
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I am so saddened and shocked by this news. Catherine was a wonderful support to me in my work over the years - always positive, supportive, encouraging, committed to social change, inspiring and warm. She will be deeply missed. To those closet to her, I send my sympathy and wishes of peace.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 21:10 IP: 137.82.96.26 |
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Sid and family, I can't imagine how this tragedy has affected you all. Such a beautiful gentle spirit has been taken far too soon.
Her cheeky grin will be missed.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 20:57 Host: S0106001346b7b4b3.vc.shawcable.net |
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Catherine, I didn't get to know you very well, but from the moment we met, you stood out as a vibrant person I wanted to know better, and someone I could learn from. I remember your joyful smile, the energy you brought to a room, and your reputation as a compassionate and respected professional who has contributed so much to the community. My love to Shaira and all of your family.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 20:47 Host: S0106001b24c23302.vc.shawcable.net |
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There is no public speaking in heaven my dear!!
Shaira...words cannot help but thought of light and love go to you and those who are comforting you at this time.
All who met you dear Catherine felt a sense of comfort form Hello!
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 20:45 Host: d142-179-3-69.bchsia.telus.net |
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Catherine ... your beauty, inspiration and support will live in our hearts ... your smile will never lose it's sparkle in our mind's eye ... the world will never be the same without you ... such loss ... so much loss ...
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 20:43 IP: 96.49.115.44 |
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Deepest condolences. I only met Catherine a couple of times in years past, but thought she was so bright. All I can think to do is to light a candle in her memory to help offset the darkness of her passing.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 20:33 IP: 117.200.64.42 |
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To the those who love Catherine: I ache for you.
Catherine: You are an inspiration to me. Your kindness, joy, wickedness and sheer delight in this world created more colours and light. Any meeting with you, I felt lighter, better, happier and more joyful. May you relish every step of your next adventure as much as you did this one. I will miss your smiles, laughter, and holy dancing in the circle.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 20:30 Host: S0106002369b9a25a.vc.shawcable.net |
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God, Shaira, this is just so awful and so hard to believe. My heart goes out to you, I really really mean that.
Catherine is one of those people who you immediately like, she is just so incredibly nice. And what a beautiful smile. That is how I picture her, smiling and laughing. I am so sorry.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 20:15 Host: S0106002332cd0c4c.vc.shawcable.net |
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You are such a beautiful soul and you will be missed. I am so sorry that you were taken before your time. You are in my thoughts.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 20:09 Host: cpe-071-077-152-222.nc.res.rr.com |
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Inhale, exhale
Forward, back
Living, dying:
Arrows, let flown each to each
Meet midway and slice
The void in aimless flight
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source.
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I will miss your spirit of light Catherine.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 20:06 Host: S01060013a97f72e3.vc.shawcable.net |
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Every time I saw her, she was full of smiles and bright energy. What a profoundly sad occasion. My thoughts are with those of you closest to her.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 20:03 Host: d64-180-85-95.bchsia.telus.net |
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What a devastating loss for so many. In just the one time I met Catherine she made a huge impression on me - such a powerful, vibrant, beautiful woman. My love and deepest condolences to all her family and friends.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 19:43 Host: d207-6-253-221.bchsia.telus.net |
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Family: I grieve with you.
Catherine: The world was a safe place with you in it. I don't know what it is now. I will miss your dance, your quiet, your generosity of strength and calmness and joy, your ability to be *with*, and your smile. I am endlessly grateful that our lives touched at the points where they did--I cannot fathom that there is an end to the meetings.
Your light changed me. Thank you. Where and how you are now, wherever and however that is, be well. Be as loved and warm and safe as you gave.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 19:36 Host: S0106000f3d50b335.vs.shawcable.net |
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I will always remember your beautiful smile. And the level of dedication and love you shared with Sid that you shared with us. I only talked with you a couple times, but I could tell you were a very beautiful person. My last memory is of you at WW and I am forever blessed to have that as what you shared before you left us.
Take care in the spirit world. We know you will remain with those you love; even though not in spirit.
Sid, I am saddened for your love's passage from our human world. I am sure you will miss the deep love between the two of you. It was obvious to anyone who met you both. Take care. If there is ever anything you need, know you can drop a note.
With respect, honor and love, boi Di
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 19:33 Host: 174-21-1-210.tukw.qwest.net |
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Shaira: My heartfelt condolences on your loss.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 19:28 Host: d207-81-21-230.bchsia.telus.net |
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Sid,
How do you tell someone who is just becoming an important part of your life that you are in pain with the thought of the what they alone will feel... from deep within I am so very sorry for your loss... I remember her energy and want nothing more for you than peace and healing within her loving memory.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 19:23 Host: c-71-231-53-176.hsd1.wa.comcast.net |
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Shaira, I am so sorry this happened to your lives. So sorry. I don't yet know how to believe Catherine is gone.
Your Catherine, the most lovely friend to so many good people. An unfathomable loss.
There is still so much I meant to learn from Catherine. This is not the lesson I expected.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 19:08 Host: c-71-231-53-176.hsd1.wa.comcast.net |
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Catherine... you will be so, so missed. You were one of the first people I met/knew in the queer world... I'm so deeply saddened to learn about this... don't even know what to say. My thoughts are with your friends and family, always. Sending love & peace to you wherever you are.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 19:00 Host: c-24-22-72-240.hsd1.or.comcast.net |
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Sweet, beautiful Catherine, you will always be in my heart.
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.
-Kahlil Gibran
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 18:46 Host: S010600039381c5c4.vc.shawcable.net |
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Shaira this is absolutely unfathomable. Words fail but please know that I'm thinking of you and many memories of Catherine. Thank you for bringing so much happiness to her life.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 18:39 Host: S0106001676d1af66.gv.shawcable.net |
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I am so sorry for your loss, Sid, I saw you both out dancing only 3 weeks ago, and although I don't know you very well, I saw that the love between you and Catherine, was magical.
I am shocked and saddened by this awful news...hugs to you!
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 18:38 Host: d99-199-113-226.bchsia.telus.net |
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She was a woman who I experienced to always have a warm smile and greeting, sweet words, a helping & teaching hand & eye, wisdom, kindness, love, and dedication. All of this and more will live in everyone she touched. My condolences to Sid and to all those that feel the pain and loss in her passing. Blessings and love.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 18:27 Host: S01060011247daa00.vc.shawcable.net |
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Catherine was so smart. So kind. So very beautiful. A spectacular human being.
She always made me feel good about myself. I loved just being near her.
She was radiant.
We weren't close. I was peripheral to her life, yet somehow I knew I was important to her. As she was to me.
I deeply mourn for the truly lovely Catherine.
And I ache, so hard, for Shaira and Catherine's loved ones. Strength and love to you all.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 18:23 Host: 121-73-134-196.cable.telstraclear.net |
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My heart aches for you, Shaira. Thank the Goddess for your friends.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 18:07 Host: d66-183-9-71.bchsia.telus.net |
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I am shocked and saddened to hear of this great loss in our community.
I have worked for many years in social services and shared many clients with Catherine. People always had such appreciation for the care, warmth, compassion and hope she gave.
My condolences. She will be missed.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:58 Host: CPE00222d50888e-CM00222d50888a.cpe.net.cable.rogers.com |
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Catherine,
You always had kind words and a welcoming smile for me when we saw each other. You will be dearly missed by many. To Shaira, and to Catherine's friends and family, my sincere condolences as you find strength and comfort in each other and your precious memories of your time with Catherine. Wishing you peace and space to grieve,
Nathalie
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:56 Host: S01060021709f5cf2.vc.shawcable.net |
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Catherine - I only had the pleasure of meeting you and hanging out with you a few times. However, I'm so thankful that I got the opportunity to spend time with you. You were such a welcoming, kind, strong, funny and amazing woman and the world will be a much darker place without you.
My heart goes out to Shaira, you two were such an amazing couple. Deepest condolences to everyone who was close to Catherine, what a tragic loss. You will be in our thoughts, much love xxx
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:54 Host: 5ad782db.bb.sky.com |
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I was speechless when I heared the news this morning. Catherine always had a smile for me, and the greatest hugs. I have no doubt that she treated all human beings that came into contact with her with respect, dignity and compassion. That was exactly the energy I felt from her, when I was in her presence. I will miss you at the Dykes on Bikes next year. I am so sorry. Sabina
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:53 Host: smtp.fsgv.ca |
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This seems quite surreal. I am greatly saddened and cannot imagine how Shaira feels at this time. I'm thinking of you and sending my heartfelt regards.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:52 Host: bas9-kitchener06-1279273014.dsl.bell.ca |
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I was speechless when I hear the news this morning. Catherine always had a smile for me, and the greatest hugs. I have no doubt that she treated all human beings that came into contact with her with respect, dignity and compassion. That was exactly the energy I felt from her, when I was in her presence. I will miss yoy at the Dykes on Bikes next year. I am so sorry. Sabina
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:51 Host: smtp.fsgv.ca |
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Oh, Catherine,
Such a beautiful smile and warm heart shining through. Your presence elicited such joy in me.
I was just thinking this morning of spending time with you and Shaira when I next come to Vancouver.
Shaira - please accept my condolences.
This is terrible.
Wishing I was in Vancouver with you all tonight. Sending love and light.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:49 Host: adsl-76-225-158-29.dsl.pltn13.sbcglobal.net |
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Catherine was a gift and I am honored to have known and loved her - I can not believe she's gone.
Always full of life, light and play. She cared deeply and lived fully.
Prayers of strength to her beloved Shaira and all who are experiencing the unbelievable sadness at her tragic passing.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:44 Host: S01060018f83ea47d.vs.shawcable.net |
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Catherine - you will be missed so much by all those you touched! I cannot think of you without remembering your infectious laugh, your warm smile, your big heart and that twinkle in your eye. Your shining light will burn on in our hearts.
Shaira - my heart aches for your loss.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:40 Host: S010600e01860496a.vc.shawcable.net |
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Catherine, when we met, you were sweet to me, and when we met again, we both blushed. Thank you for your welcome, it meant a lot to me.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:40 Host: S010600119539c6ac.vc.shawcable.net |
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I am shocked and so sad - no please, not her!- she was a lovely woman, I didn't know her well. I know Shaira loved her, and my heart goes out to you, Shaira.
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Patti
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:38 Host: S01060015e9a87e4a.vc.shawcable.net |
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Catherine, you will be remembered and your memory will be honoured in all of the lives that you have changed. Thank you.
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I can't say I know Catherine well, although we have met many times over the years. I will always remember Catherine's laugh echoing across the room - she always seemed to be having the most fun.
I'm very sorry for you, Sid, and for everyone who was close to her. What a terrible loss.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:16 IP: 207.102.172.98 |
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Oh my...how to find words when none will do. Catherine, your warm warm hugs and your amazing laugh will be missed by all who were lucky enough to know you. Thank you for the hope, support and love you gave so freely.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:15 Host: S0106001e8cdf1ae9.vf.shawcable.net |
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I am deeply grateful for a recent visit to Vancouver when I ran into Catherine & Sid after many years. I am grateful I was able to share some kind words and receive one of Catherine's warm loving hugs.
She was truly the loveliest human being. I am deeply saddened and my heart goes out to you Sid and to everyone who is feeling this profound loss today.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:13 Host: d75-157-111-124.bchsia.telus.net |
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Catherine clearly lived with love and kindness and touched so many folks. Though we only met a handful of times, she was always friendly, kind, and welcoming to me. In just my small circle of friends there are several folks who might not be here if it weren't for that love and kindness, her support, experience with the system, commitment to community, to change. i'm sending much love and prayers tonight for her, and her loves.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:12 Host: d75-157-232-233.bchsia.telus.net |
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Her smile will be with me always. Her laugh will lighten my heart. Her strength will help me in the tough times. Thank you Catherine for your gifts to this world and bless those you taught and touched. You spirit will always be among us cuz Heaven isn't big enough to hold it all.
My strength and peace to you Shara. Hold your friends close, they will carry you through.
To all those souls who have been enriched by her life, be strong, be patient and be thankful for her time on this mortal plane. Peace.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:12 Host: S01060014512a95e6.vs.shawcable.net |
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We will all miss you, sweet random moments of connection and talks whenever we saw one another, be well where you are
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 17:03 Host: S0106001fc6d9efd5.vc.shawcable.net |
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My heart aches.... for all who knew and loved Catherine... for all who Catherine knew and loved...and most especially for Shaira.
Words cannot describe how much she will be missed.
RIP
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 16:53 Host: d75-157-205-228.bchsia.telus.net |
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All my best to Catherine's family. I am extremely sorry for your loss. I want you to know that Catherine's influence was felt very strongly in lots of places, including the feminist anti-violence community, which is where I first met her. I didn't know her well, but I deeply admired her work and loved her warmth and friendliness. I am sorry that the queer community, the social services community and the world in general have lost such an important woman.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 16:42 Host: d99-199-101-130.bchsia.telus.net |
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Shaira - my thoughts and prayers are with you now. Catherine will be missed by so many but not as much as you. You were her beloved and she loved you deeply. That was clearly apparent when she looked at you. Jen and I have so many fond memories of spending time with both of you those many years ago on Galiano Island. Her infectious laugh along with the spark in her eye, will be what I will remember most. I am deeply sorry for your loss and am sending you lots of love and comfort. Sweet dreams dear Lady.
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I am very sad to hear about Catherine's tragic passing. I had only met Catherine earlier this year and during the times we spoke.. she struck me as one of the lovliest people I had ever met. She was such a gracious person.. there was always warmth in her smile and her concern for others was always genuine. While I know that words are only a small gesture of support, I want her family to know that her spirit has touched many people's lives as it has mine. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
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I am so sorry. I had just been getting to know Catherine after having met her in the mid-80s. We had met to talk about "femme stuff." She said she thoroughly enjoyed it, and we'd planned to get together again in the New Year when her schedule opened up a bit. I'd been looking forward to getting to know her better.
She was lovely--kind and generous, with wonderful laughter and a delightful twinkle.
I was impressed to learn that she'd been an originator of the LGTB program at Three Bridges. That's fourteen years of vision and community-building, one person at a time. She made a huge contribution.
Sid and all of her close friends, I am wishing you comfort now and in future.
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My Catherine was the epitome of everything we should all try to be,truly the most amazing wonderful,loving,woman.Sexy,beautiful and oh so very funny...oh how we laughed.Thankyou for all the wonderful memories,and for helping me become the person i am today...the good parts i mean!!!I think i am so kinked cuz of her!! PRAISE THE LORD!!!!
Shaira...thank you for making her so happy...i love you and am so sorry.
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Long has her goodness graced a small corner of my life. Though we were never close, the kindness she gave me when no one else would hear me so long ago was never forgotten. She will be much missed.
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SO very thankful to of had the pleasure of knowing her...her touch was gentle, her voice so soothing....she is indeed a memorable Lady...you will indeed be missed by so many, but your love will be in the hearts of those for all time....
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 16:21 IP: 70.70.241.96 |
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I wish I had wise words right now. I adore Catherine and her sparkly, sunshiny energy.
Sending love to everyone who loves Catherine.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 16:20 Host: d75-157-232-233.bchsia.telus.net |
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Jane | |
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My first memory of Catherine was years back, she came up to me right out of the blue to say hello. She always had a kind word, hug and smile. Her beauty shone through, her light will not be forgotten.
Sending love and prayers to those left behind.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 16:18 Host: S01060011d8ed52ca.vc.shawcable.net |
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Leenie | |
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Dear Catherine, you floated with an adoring smile on your beautiful face. Your love of Sid and Family was intoxicating and opened anyone who could see you . tears and joyous memories of you mingle in my heart. You are missed deeply by many......
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 16:16 Host: 97-89-155-241.dhcp-v.gnvl.sc.charter.com |
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Bren Ryder | |
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I am so grateful to have met her.
My heart goes out to all those who love her. My deepest condolences.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 16:12 Host: S01060016cba0f440.vc.shawcable.net |
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Anna Judge | |
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Catherine was my rock when I most needed it. She taught me self control, self respect and how to see the strength I have in myself.
It is no lie or exaggeration when I say without Catherine I would not be here today.
She loved me when I couldn't love myself anymore, she taught me how to see something, anything inside of me that was worth living for the next day.
Thank you Catherine, you will never be forgotten and you will always live in me each day.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 16:10 Host: d205-250-160-25.bchsia.telus.net |
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Catherine, you will be missed. That bright shining light, that made everyone smile. Beautiful on the inside and out, and a warm heart to hug.
Love you, will miss you dearly.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 16:06 IP: 206.53.157.115 |
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Linnea | |
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Catherine, the world is a cruel place. You helped *so many* out of such dark places in order that they could truly live again. Your integrity, compassion, and strength will be deeply missed, but never forgotten. Your life and death remind us to make the most of our lives and to truly live. We will miss you as a meaningful part of our community, as I know you will have touched many more we don't even know about.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 16:04 Host: d205-250-160-25.bchsia.telus.net |
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Raynee Taylor | |
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May the memory of you, travel in everyones heart for an eternity. My heart goes to you Shaira in your time of need..
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 16:01 Host: S01060012cf820006.vc.shawcable.net |
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Sylvia | |
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I am truly saddened to hear about this.
All my best wishes & prayers to family - chosen & otherwise.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 15:57 IP: 207.102.255.228 |
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Elaine | |
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O Catherine, we're going to miss you so.
Monday, November 30, 2009 at 15:52 Host: d99-199-101-130.bchsia.telus.net |